what am i going to do?

Tuesday, 1. June 2010

i’m 60 yo. i’ve been married to an emotionally abusive, controlling jerk for 12 years. each day that passes gets worse and i can’t take it anymore. i can’t even imagine living the rest of my life like this. he has total control over me. he has moved me to the middle of nowhere, in the woods. his mother controls all his money. i have no clue what our financial situation is. when we first married he said he did not want me to work. he even spoiled our dog so bad, that we cannot leave home for more than a couple hours at a time. i know that sounds ridiculous, but believe me, he has me right where he wants me — under his thumb. and, i let it get this bad. i can’t believe i did. i want to leave but i haven’t worked since 1997 and i have no skills. i’ve tried taking care of myself before and failed miserably and that was when i was much younger. i have no money to file divorce — i have NO place to go, other than a shelter, but i know i cannot stay there forever. how am i supposed to buy my 6 prescriptions? whatever i made working wouldn’t probably cover those alone, let alone rent and all the other expenses i’d have. i would never stay in our home because not only has he threatened me but his son has as well. and, being out in the woods, i wouldn’t trust either one. his whole family is certifiably crazy (i am NOT kidding). they lie about me to him all the time and have caused more problems for me and our marriage than you’d ever imagine. they would make my life even more of a hell on earth if i stayed in our home. i live in wisconsin which is a community property state; however, he’s threatened me many times i won’t get a dime, he’ll make sure. i’d be surprised if he hasn’t already put everything in his mother’s name so i don’t get a penny. he already has a checking account with her but not me, same for savings account. my name is on nothing, except one car. he has 3 properties and several cars. he makes nearly $100,000 a year but swears we’re flat broke all the time. i know we can’t be because we have nothing to show for it. we live in a run down mobile home and he spends no money on upkeep here, in fact, we bought it new in 98 but he’s let it fall a part and spends no money on upkeep. he’s either keeping his entire family or another woman. i really don’t want to live if i have to live like this for the rest of my life. heck, my grandmother lived to be 96 — if i live that long, i have 36 more years like this left. i want to leave in the worse way. i’d leave this second if i had a place to go and i could be sure i’d make it, but i don’t have much hope. everything seems to be against me. he has also threatened me many times if i ever leave him, he’ll hunt me down and kill me. i wish i could just get a new identity and change my appearance and leave. does anyone have any real options for me, other than just leaving. it’s easy to say, but it’s very frightening at my age. i’m getting too old to start over. i’ve already had to start over 3 other times in my life, from scratch, and it wasn’t easy then, i know it won’t be this time. with that being said, i know i’d be more happy out of this marriage and i will do what i have to do to make it but i can only do just so much. i’m scared to stay and i’m scared to leave. is there hope for me?

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Going Scrimp? Buy Pet Medications Without Prescription!

Saturday, 13. March 2010

As pet lovers, we obviously love our pets. But on the irony, we don’t love the idea of spending money every time our pets get sick and we have no choice at all but to buy those prescribed medicines for them, do we? Well, we really could not avoid illnesses to wreck our pet’s health. Just like people, even we are already extra careful with everything, at one point in our life, we still get ill. And spending a heavy sum of money for prescription meds can be very tiring, how much more if we’d spend that for our pets whom we consider inferior than ourselves? Well, needless to say, as time sure flies so fast, so does technology. And in this modern way of living, we can now buy pet medications without prescription.

The Internet has really altered things in our life right now. Even the way we shop for things that we need daily is already affected by the power of the Internet. We can now possibly buy anything online and can get so much valuable in formations via the net. As the causes of our pets’ illnesses can be researched freely through it, purchasing remedies for the said diseases can be searched and even bought online as well.

There is already a large variety of pet medications available, somewhere near you or at your local pet stores, and now – even online! Well, it can be more convenient buying at online stores however, if the case is really at an emergency state, then you don’t have the time to wait at all for the shipment. But if you still have a few more days to wait, then it could be wiser to purchase online as you can avail a bit of discount especially if you order by bulks. And what’s good about buying online? You can search for some non-prescription pet meds that are appropriate for your pet’s condition. Then you won’t have to visit your vet for some consultation at all. That – would save you a penny.

Well some say, they don’t believe that non-prescription pet remedies would not work as much as those that veterinarians give as prescriptions. That is, I believe, a total misconception. These types of delusions are somehow baseless and have totally no connection with buying and using generic pet meds.

Actually, all medicines that have the same goal of curing effect have the same active ingredients to cure the illness. The only difference between generic and prescriptive medicines is that, the manufacturers of generic meds don’t give so much to costly affairs that prescriptive medicines undergo that’s why they come less expensive compared to branded remedies. But the curing ability are just the same with their effective curing properties.

Let’s be true to ourselves. In this world of rising poverty which is caused by the endless rising of prices, we sure would love to save our money. And pet keeping would mean another adjustment to our budget. So if our pets would get sick, probably some would consider it a very heavy load ‘coz that would mean scratching out the family’s budget to provide their beloved pet’s needs in terms of medication. And bringing the pet to a veterinarian for a thorough check-up is an additional expense. Well, it’s a good idea to bring him to the vet but if we are really on a tight budget, why force ourselves? Online pet pharmacies can give us a cheaper option, at least for the meantime (if we really want our pets to have an actual thorough check up). And in line with this, online pet stores are always available to provide all our pets’ exigencies.

What are the advantages? We can save money, cure our pets with at least a much lesser cost, and we may have the idea of the possible causes and the possible cures next time our pets would suffer from ailments again. The only drawback is our pets would miss the great benefit to be checked up by a veterinarian in person. Vets really are helpful in pet keeping because they are experts in pet health conditions. And they know most on what’s best and what’s not for your pets, especially if your pets have ’still’ unknown allergies to certain substances that some pet remedies possess.

So to conclude, it can be helpful and possible to buy pet medications without prescription. Helpful in a way that we can save money and possible through online pet pharmaceuticals, which can also contribute to the issue on convenience. But if you have set aside a budget for your pet only, it is better to consult the help of veterinarians. Well, it’s not really on the issue of where to buy and what to trust. It is preventing and taking heed always in ensuring our pet’s safety.

To learn more about the different types of pet meds for your dogs, cats, horse, etc., and how to get discount and cheap pet medications, make sure to visit http://www.callpetmeds.com where you will find everything on getting quality yet affordable pet medications.